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Thursday, February 08, 2007
Obsession
An influence, notion or fixed idea, which persistently assails or vexes so as to discompose the mind; the uncontrollable desire to dwell on an idea or emotion, frequently involving an urge toward some form of action.
Obsessions are usually fun as long as You can end them when you're done enjoying them. I personally know that obsessions can be really amazing feelings but eventually they have to end if they get out of control. How ... by giving yourself a reality check.
Obsessive feeling or being obsessed with a man or woman?
Being obsessed with people usually means that you are confused or insecure. Most people who get obsessed in a relationship consider their obsession their property or object. People are obviously not property, trophies or objects. Obsessing on people is obviously wrong but most people aren't even aware of what they are actually thinking. People confuse the difference between love, lust and desire. All those feelings are good and natural but only if there's some sort of control over your feelings. Most people can't tell the difference but should try to find it.
Being obsessed with someone famous
Being obsessed with someone famous usually stems from feeling insecure about who you are and wishing to be someone else (the person obsessed usually want to be the famous person or be like that person). This can also be a good thing if you don't have any good influences or role models in your life but taking things to the point that you become someone else. As long as you don't stop being yourself completely you could be okay. Obsessing excessively can be very detrimental to you health. (This is so me, I'm always wishing i was someone else)
Different types of obsessions
Some unhealthy obsessions would be on lying, constant shopping, gambling, people, sax, celebrities, drugs or anything that causes harm. These obsessions can get you into big trouble. Some other good obsessions would be on good work, saving money, education, learning, being helpful and anything else that makes life healthier.
Most obsessions come up when someone is trying to fill a sense of emptiness in their life. Some people get obsessed when they’ve lost something in their past or present so they obsess on something that reminds them of the lost person or thing. It usually stems from not being able to accept loss or not understanding that many things in life can’t be forever. Obsessions can stem from many things that most people aren't really aware of.
So what are your obsessions? I want to know.... I know you all are obsessed with something so tell me all about it:)
lol Heres a pic of some dudes shoe,
I think hes a bit obsessed with Titty and ass!!!
Those are some serious fuck me boots:)
6 want to get Lei'd!.:
Interesting shoes...
Check out on my blog what my kitty did to me... :(
4:53 AM
Personally...I have no obsessions.....well, except for the perfume "Obsession"....which I LOVE LOVE LOVE....lol
but those shoes......are freaky! lol
5:09 AM
I think everyone has had an obsession either with a person or a thing or a show or whatever....a fetish, etc....the list goes on. I was once obsessed with my ex-girlfriend...and now I know it wasn't love...it was lust.
Great write up!
11:12 AM
What if you're obsessed with a race of fictional green slave-girl aliebs from a 70's televsion show? ;)
Steve~
4:02 PM
Great shoes!
Yes they do say a lot!
8:50 PM
Uh...CHEESECAKE hello...I am obsessed withthe stuff. That and guys from Cali ;P
6:56 PM
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