5 want to get Lei'd!.:

 Teri got sand in my Pina Colada.

That is a hard one. No matter what you say, it will not heal what she is feeling. Just let her know that you are there, and listen and let her get it all out!

 Anonymous got sand in my Pina Colada.

Hollz, I have to agree with Teri. SHe just needs someone to be there for her and let her express how she is feeling. It is really rough going through this....and yes she is better off that they arent married....trust me.
Also just remind her that she is a smart, beautiful woman who deserves better than she has gotten accustomed to from this guy.
Oh yeah and tell her I send her a hug or two!

 Regal got sand in my Pina Colada.

Me and my girlfriends spend as much time with the hurting friend as possible to divert her attention from the pain she's feeling. Agree with the girls above. However, everything happens for a reason even if we can't see it at the moment, although telling someone that never makes them feel better at the time.

 Sassy got sand in my Pina Colada.

Be there for her. I guess there is not much we can do in situations like this, except be a good friend. Remind them often how amazing they are as a person and that she deserves everything good in life.

Ohhh and show up with ice cream. It's cliche but it works and it's yummy.

 Greyhound Girl got sand in my Pina Colada.

I think letting her cry with you is good and should help. It's nothing anyone can fix, even her. It's a grieving process and she just has to work through it- and you are awesome to be there for her.